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Naek Fitrat Aadmi

Mohabbat

محبت!" اس ایک لفظ میں انسان کے خدا تک پہنچنے کا راز پوشیدہ ہے اور اس ایک لفظ کے اندر ہی ساری کائنات ہے۔ لیکن! ایک بات یاد رکھنا کہ محبت تم اُسی وقت کر سکو گے جب تم اندر سے خوش اور پرباش ہو گے۔ محبت جھنڈی نہیں ہے کہ گھر کے باہر لگا لی یا تمغہ نہیں ہے کہ سینے پر سجا لیا۔ یا پگڑی نہیں ہے کہ خوب کلف لگا کر سر پر باندھ لی' ...دستار محبت! یہ تو تمھاری روح ہے تمھارے اندر کا اندر۔ اور تمھاری آتما کی آتما ہے۔ اس کو تو دریافت کرنا پڑے گا۔ ڈھونڈنا پڑے گا' اس کی کھوج لگانی ہو گی۔ یہ عائد نہیں کی جاتی' اندر سے باہر لائی جاتی ہے۔
زاویہ سوئم
صفحہ ۲۴۲
باب: محبت کی حقیقت

Sunehri Bataen

Sochnay ki Bataen

Sunehray Moti

Lesson of Life

I feared being alone,
Until I learned to like myself.
 
I feared failure,
Until I realized that I only fail when I don't try.

 

I feared success,
Until I realized That I had to try In order to be happy with myself.
 
I feared people's opinions,
Until I learned that people would have opinions about me anyway.
 
I feared rejection,
Until I learned to have faith in myself.

 

I feared pain,
Until I learned that it's necessary for growth.
 
I feared the truth,
Until I saw the ugliness in lies.
 
I feared life
Until I experienced its beauty.
 
I feared death,
Until I realized that it's not an end, but a beginning.
 
I feared my destiny,
Until I realized that I had the power to change my life.
 
I feared hate,
Until I saw that it was nothing more than ignorance.

 

I feared love,
Until it touched my heart, making the 
darkness fade into endless sunny days.
 
I feared ridicule,
Until I learned how to laugh at myself.
 
I feared growing old,
Until I realized that I gained wisdom every day.

 

I feared the future,
Until I realized that Life just kept getting better.

 

I feared the past,
Until I realized that It could no longer hurt me.

 

I feared the dark,
Until I saw the beauty of the starlight.

 

I feared the light,
Until I learned that the truth would give me strength.

 

I feared change,
Until I saw that even the most beautiful butterfly 
Had to undergo a metamorphos is before it could fly.

Islamic Precious Quotes

1. "If Allah sends you some provision without you looking forward to it or asking others for it, then take it." 
2. "If you ask Allah for anything, then ask Him for al-Firdaws (the highest level of Paradise)." 
3. "If you hear the call to prayer, then respond to the one who is calling you to worship Allah." 
4. "If you hear the call to prayer, then repeat behind the caller." 
5. "If one gets angry, let him keep silent." 
6. "If a man becomes angry and says '
7. Aoodhu Billaah (I seek refuge with Allah),' his anger will cease." 
8. "When you stand up to pray, pray as if it is your last prayer."

Goal Setting For Life

It's Always a big trouble for people to set thier lives goal. 

Here are a few tips and keys you can do to stick to your resolutions:

BE REALISTIC. If you're looking to slim down, setting a resolution to lose 250 lb.. is a bit too dreamy. Start with some workable goal (try starting with 50 lb.) and as you see progress, step up your goals from your successes. Now, it's also useful to challenge yourself, just keep it attainable. And instead of losing weight, state the goal in positive and measurable terms, so for example, consider becoming fit so that you can do something that you can't at your current fitness.

GO FOR ACTION. If you made a resolution to get stuff like getting into shape, or to get a car, house, 'toy', or some other outcome, change it now to an action. Here's an explanation: Action is about the activities and behaviors you'll engage in order to attain things. So, instead of aiming for a happier relationship with your spouse, resolve to set aside specific times to spend with him/her, like going to the movies and dinner on Tuesday nights.

Make it a REAL experience. in your head, like you're really there and already have it. "REALLY" is the key here, so if your resolution is to successfully ask your boss for that well-deserved raise, then actually run through the experience in your head as though you are actually doing it... Use all of the senses: see that certain look in his face, hear the phones ringing in the the background, smell that scent his office always has, and feel how good it is to be getting what you're worth and communicating that to your employer. Now, there's an extremely important extra step to this aspect of attaining your outcome, and that is to...

STEP OUT of the experience you ran through! Too many people never get their goals because they make the experience in their heads so realistic, that they feel like they've already got it! They never step out of the experience in their heads, and the excitement and compulsion to go after it is lost. Unless you want to be like the old Everly Brother's song. "Dream, dream dream..." step out of the picture and go for it!

Principles for a Successful Life

A successful life is a satisfying life. It is one where you are healthy, happy and fulfilled in your existence. Most people would like to lead such a life, but many think it is not easy to do. In fact, it is not that difficult. Much of what happens to you in your life is a result of your philosophy or way of thinking and the principles you follow, as well as your attitude toward things.

Questions you may have on this are:

• What type of philosophy do I need to have?
• How do attitude, health and wealth fit in?
• What do I need to do to get started?

This lesson will answer those questions and give you an overview of how to lead a successful, satisfying life.

Have a positive philosophy

In order to lead a good, well or satisfying life, you need a positive philosophy toward the major components in your life. These components are your:

• Attitude
• Health
  • Physical
  • Emotional
  • Spiritual
• Communications
• Knowledge
• Activities
  • Vocation
  • Leisure

(Note that the outlook of the School for Champions follows these life components and provides courses of how to succeed in many of them.)

Be good in each

You can be good and attain satisfaction in each of these items, leading to a happy and healthy life.

(The hyperlinks jump to lessons on each activity. You can get the details on each right now or wait until you finish this lesson.)

Attitude

Your attitude can make your life satisfying, if you:

• Enjoy life
• Be accountable for your own well being
• Think in terms of taking care of your whole person—your body, mind and spirit

Health

The following are ways to attain wellness in the different types of health.

Physical health

Good physical health can make your life satisfying, if you:

• Are physically active
• Eat frugally
• Minimize medical invasiveness

Emotional health

Good emotional health can make your life satisfying, if you:

• Handle stress well
• Are aware of your feelings
• Appreciate the talents you have

Spiritual health

Good spiritual health can make your life satisfying, if you:

• Are forgiving
• Are grateful
• Are at peace

Communication

The following are ways to attain wellness in the areas of communication.

Sensing the world

Effective sensing of the world around you can make your life more satisfying, if you:

• Are observant
• Are curious
• Use all your senses 

Social interactions

Good social interactions can make your life satisfying, if you:

• Have respect for other people
• Try to have everyone win
• Live for today

Intellect

Good intellect can make your life satisfying, if you:

• Think mindfully
• Are creative
• Continually grow

Vocation

A good vocation can make your life satisfying, if you:

• Have a purpose
• Help others
• Are concerned about future generations